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Steven Schlafman's avatar

Welcome home brother!

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Rob Hardy's avatar

thanks schlaf! sounds like you've been going through the fire over the last year, too. can't wait to see your own re-emergence soon!

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Cassandra Ellis's avatar

definitely here for the loving groundedness. thank you for opening the doors and the windows to your 2023.

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Rob Hardy's avatar

thanks cass!! hope you're doing well over there, and would love to catch up sometime soon!

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Cassandra Ellis's avatar

i am well, and in a lot of endings and beginnings which is challenging. i'd love to catch up, too.

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Ben Kellie's avatar

Thanks for this.

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Rob Hardy's avatar

quite welcome, ben. thanks for reading!

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tonygreenberg.1's avatar

An inspiring account of an inspiring experience. Wishing you the best.

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Rob Hardy's avatar

thanks tony! 🙏

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James Stuber's avatar

glad to have you back sir

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Rob Hardy's avatar

thank u so much señor stuber. it's good to be back 🫡

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Jeffrey Kursonis's avatar

Wow inspiring story. You paid the cost to give it value. Thanks for sharing that value with us.

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Rob Hardy's avatar

thanks jeffrey! you hit the nail on the head with the "paid the cost" bit. that's something i want to do with as much of my writing as possible going forward. actually LIVE and learn and grow in the real world, and then leave behind written artifacts derived from my genuine experience of life.

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Nancy Wright's avatar

Thank you for this incredibly honest share of yourself.

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Rob Hardy's avatar

thank you for reading, nancy! 🙏

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Theresa "Sam" Houghton's avatar

I haven't been on Substack in a while, so I'm just now reading this. I missed you muchly, Mr. Rob.

It seems we're wrestling with similar things from different directions, especially that fire to write...and doing everything except letting the spark become a flame. Or the trickle become a waterfall, depending on what metaphor you want to use.

Can't wait to see what it looks like for you. 👊🏻👊🏻

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L. Vago's avatar

You’re awesome Rob, thank you for the sincere and vulnerable piece.

My only pushback is your sense that you have to “earn” your self-respect. You’re already worthy of it before you do anything at all. And, not that it matters, but me and hundreds of others whose lives you’ve touched respect you already as well, your “2023 decisions” included. Lots to be proud of already!

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Amir H. Hajizamani's avatar

Great to have you back, buddy. Oh how I resonate with all of this, the going away to be able to come back to self, the joy of finding poetry come out of an unexpected love, the confronting of the need to write and admitting self-respect and self-love is The Way. Much love, happy returns 💚

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mel's avatar

gosh, this was so beautiful to read. <3 <3

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Richard D. Bartlett's avatar

take that RV on the road bro?

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Noor M's avatar

Rob! I'd sporadically think of you and how you were doing and it's good to see you're back (and also recovering from the downward curve). I also want to jump back into the forest and see whats up. All the best man

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Brendan Hufford's avatar

What a wonderful piece. So grateful you took the time to write it,

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Mathilde Baillet's avatar

Thanks for your vulnerability. And for this ôde to keep writing no matter what. To a brighter 2024 🥂

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Tricia Pickren's avatar

Ah, another layer or ten peeled away and a Rob come home. I can feel it in the energy behind your words. ❤️‍🔥

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